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It’s possible that some of those fighting for freedom in the streets of Cairo today may wield an iron hand of oppression tomorrow.

Unrest persists in the streets of Cairo. Protesters have turned out en masse, seeking to topple a totalitarian regime in the name of democracy and freedom. But it’s possible that some – if not many – of those fighting for freedom in the streets of Cairo today may wield an iron hand of oppression tomorrow.

“The situation in Egypt is extremely disturbing,” says Faith McDonnell, Director of Religious Liberty Programs at the Institute for Religion and Democracy in Washington DC, “At this point, we don’t know what the outcome will be, but various scenarios are extremely bad for the Copts and other Christians of Egypt.”

Fears for the Future

The “various scenarios” she speaks of involve the rise of the Muslim Brotherhood, an organization considered extremist by some, and whose participation in the protests has been central. As the government of unpopular President Hosni Mubarak seems ripe for a transition, the opposition’s top choice, Mohamed ElBaradei, is one backed by the Muslim group. In an article in the Wall Street Journal, Ziad el-Alami, a senior aide for ElBaradei and a human rights attorney, expressed reservations about the group’s participation in a transitional government. “I have some fears about the Muslim Brotherhood and their [future] intentions,” he said, “But the situation is bigger than all of us now. You need them in the streets.”

Indeed, the desire for freedom and democracy seems to be dominant in the minds of Egyptians from all walks of life. That’s why some people feel that the fears revolving around the Muslim Brotherhood need to take a back seat to the more important drive for democratic government.

“I am 60 years old and retired,” Hanafy Mohammad Abdel Salam told Time, while proclaiming his support for the democracy protestors. “I have lived 60 years without freedom, and my children, they have smelled only a whiff of freedom.”

Many ordinary citizens like Salam have joined the throng of protestors, which include extremists from the Muslim Brotherhood. On Tuesday, more than 200,000 people managed to reach Cairo’s Tahrir Square despite the shutdown of most public transportation, according to the Los Angeles Times. For millions of Egyptians, the possibility of freedom seems to override any other concerns.

Coptic Christians Look Ahead

At the minimum, the Muslim Brotherhood appears to be positioning itself to play a greater role in Egyptian politics in the years to come. Time will tell the future of the new, emerging Egypt. In the meantime, apprehension for Egypt’s Coptic Christian community remains imminent.

Dr. Patrick Sookhdeo is the International Director of Barnabas Aid, an organization that seeks to aid persecuted believers around the world. He says that Christians everywhere need to pray that “as Egyptian citizens seek freedom from an autocratic leader, they will not fall into the hands of a strict Islamic regime that will only further oppress its people, especially Christians.”

Faith McDonnell echoes a similar sentiment. “I have great concern about the rise of Muslim Brotherhood and ElBaradei, who appears to be the favorite of the Muslim Brotherhood,” she says, “This would be a terrible situation for the Christians of Egypt, who are already experiencing great persecution. Persecution would become legitimized under a Shari’a-led regime, rather than just incidental.”

Certainly Christians in Egypt have experienced maltreatment during the past several decades, and Islamic extremism is playing a significant role in this persecution. On New Year’s Day this year, 21 Christians were killed and numerous others wounded when a bomb exploded just outside a church in Alexandria. The blast killed member after member as they exited the church following mass. In addition to attacks on churches, Muslim converts to Christianity have been arrested and attacked, or forced to go into hiding.

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Nobody is as happy as he seems on Facebook. Let’s train ourselves not for spin control, but for prayer, for repentance, for joy.


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“It wasn’t until the doorway was opened and I fell into the abyss of unknowing, met my undoing, faced the root fear of non-being, and slowly emerged from this profound process of awakening, that I recognized what I had sensed and had been expressing in my life all along. We are already that Read the rest of this entry »

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Loving Your Car

Of all of the things I own, my car would have to be on the top of my list of what I am most grateful for. I literally cannot imagine my life without my car. Can you imagine your life without a car?

The obvious reason that I love my car so much is because of the convenience it brings to my life. If it were not for my car, how would I get to all of the events and activities of the week let alone to the grocery store? Every member of my family is involved in a variety of activities that they love being part of. Not having a car to get them to and from their favorite events would certainly be a challenge. I love my car because if I forget an item at the store I can simply turn around and go purchase it. If I were relying on public transportation or a friend with a car I would have much less freedom to do what I want.

I love allowing my family members to do things they love. I love watching my young daughters practice ballet or take swim lessons. My sons enjoy participating in flag football and in basketball after school. My husband plays in a city wide soccer league and I enjoy getting together with friends to scrapbook our families latest memories. Our car is the single thing that makes it possible for our lives to be rich and full. I cannot imagine forcing my kids or my husband to stay home all the time and find ways to entertain themselves. My car has brought an incredible richness to each of our lives.

Another thing I love having about a car is that it allows my family to have close friendships with people all across town. While we enjoy time with our close neighbors, some of our best friends happen to live a drive away, and having a car makes it possible to visit them and spend time together. Even my siblings and my parents live too far away to walk to their homes, so I have been very grate
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ful over the years for the ways my car has allowed me to stay connected to my family and friends.

Consider all of the ways your car has benefited your life. If you are anything like me, I take my car for granted. I do not take care of it properly and then I get frustrated when my car doesn’t run perfectly. In the past couple of years I have started getting the car in for regular oil changes, I have committed to keeping the inside and the outside cleaner, and I take it to a mechanic for a regular tune up. I figure that for all the great things my car does for me, keeping it cared for is the least I can do for my car.

If you love your car as much as I do, get it cleaned or tuned up today.

By: Otto Wynn

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When you live with an alcoholic one of the best survival strategies is to detach, preferably with love. If you live with an alcoholic or a problem drinker you will almost certainly find yourself worrying about if he is going to drink, when he is going to drink, what he is going drink, how much he is going to drink and what the consequences of the drinking will be. You are being sucked into his world and your life is being dictated by his behavior. Increasingly you will find yourself trying to control this world by seeking assurances that he won’t drink or won’t drink too much or won’t drink with the car or a thousand other scenarios.

People who live with an alcoholic often feel that they are changing. They can feel that their personality is changing, and not usually for the better. Where there was once a relaxed and carefree person who was fun loving and keen to socialize with friends now you probably feel like someone else entirely. You probably feel like you are constantly nagging, critical and bad tempered. Socializing with friends may be a thing of the past or alternately, if you and your drinker still socialize, it may be a nightmare for you.

You find yourself wondering what he will do or say, who he will upset and just how drunk will he get. It is little wonder that many people who live with an alcoholic withdraw from their friends. They feel guilty about their drinking partners as if it is somehow their fault and they feel ashamed and embarrassed to be with him when he is drunk. He may or may not be an abusive or belligerent drunk but even an affable and funny drunk becomes boring and tiresome pretty quickly.

Often people who live with an alcoholic have low self esteem, they do not like themselves very much. Indeed they often feel that they are not very lovable or even likable. Years of trying to change the alcoholic take its toll mentally and physically. You may find that you have problems sleeping, that you are constantly tired and your mood is always low and you often feel weepy, sometimes for no apparent reason. (These are some of the classic symptoms of depression and if you are experiencing them then you should seek help from your family doctor.)

You may find that your eating habits have changed and that you are losing weight or gaining weight. Often people who live with an alcoholic find that their general health is poor. They find themselves suffering from a variety of colds, flu and low level illnesses. Not only do they catch these illnesses easily they may also find that they have difficult recovering from them. Therefore they can find themselves feeling poorly for much of the time. Much of this can be caused by stress, which recent research has found can have an affect on the immune system.

Thus living with a problem drinker can bring many problems social, mental and physical. One way to reduce the impact and reduce these problems is to detach with love. In the next article we will discuss what detaching with love means.

John McMahon has worked in the addiction field for over 25 years. In that time he has worked as a therapist, university lecturer and researcher and has published widely. Help for people living with an alcoholic

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Need a reboot on your New Year’s resolutions? Break destructive patterns, spot a healthy church, and learn how to confess good things about yourself this month.


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“Career Renegade: How To Make A Great Living Doing What You Love” by Jonathan Fields is more than a “rah rah” do what you love book. It’s full of practical advice on building a living around what you love to do, and following your passion rather than a paycheck. Fields himself, once a mega-firm Read the rest of this entry »

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Judas does us a favor if his story causes us to rethink our basic commitment to Christ by asking, “Lord, is it I?”


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Compassionate Detachment: Loving Enough To Let Go

When I was young I discovered a chrysalis hanging from a branch in some scrub oak near our house. Each day after this discovery I would go out and check on this chrysalis in the hopes of seeing the butterfly that I knew was inside. Read the rest of this entry »

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Missionary calling is a mysterious thing. Some people can tell you about a single, life-changing moment when God spoke to them clearly. Others talk about a growing sense of leading and purpose over many years…


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